Every morning when Intisar Abdulhamid wakes up, there are people already waiting outside the door of her apartment in the northern Kurdish city of Erbil. Her home has become a haven for dozens of deaf and dumb people who have escaped ISIL’s advance in Iraq. “We drink tea, we have discussions about the current situation and we try to support one another," said Ms Abdulhamid, 55, who has spent 30 years helping deaf and dumb people.
When she was younger, Ms Abdulhamid learned sign language to communicate with her deaf husband. Later, four of her five children also had the same condition. “At first it was very difficult," Ms Abdulhamid said, recalling her early encounters with the man she would marry at 15 under an arrangement agreed by both sets of parents.
“We could communicate just through writing, we couldn’t connect properly. But we slowly got used of each other and we fell in love," she said. There are roughly 2 million people in Iraq who are living with disabilities, according to the World Health Organisation. Few receive access to healthcare and rehabilitation in the country where years of conflict has taken a heavy toll on the health system.
People living with disabilities are particularly vulnerable. Shunned by the rest of society, they are often excluded from community life, Ms Abdulhamid said. “A lot of people are becoming deaf because of the bombings, and they do not know where to turn to if not to us," she said. More worrying are reports that militant groups such as Al Qaeda and ISIL are recruiting people with disabilities to become suicide bombers, Ms Abdulhamid said.
Last month, she received a call from an acquaintance in Baghdad. “This woman asked me to help her with her son who is 18," Ms Abdulhamid said. “Some terrorists approached him and offered him US$1,000 (Dh3,670) to blow himself up, but his mother discovered everything. I told her to send him to Erbil and we are taking care of him."
In February 2015, the UN Committee on the Rights of the Child said Iraqi boys aged under 18 were increasingly being used by ISIL as suicide bombers, informants or human shields to protect facilities against US-led air strikes. An expert from the committee also said the UN watchdog had received reports of children, especially mentally challenged children, being used by the extremists as suicide bombers, “most probably without them even understanding".
Before escaping to the capital of Iraq’s autonomous Kurdish region, Ms Abdulhamid lived in the western city of Fallujah, where she and her husband, Sharif Farhan, set up the only charity in the country dedicated to helping the deaf and dumb. From boyhood, Mr Farhan was encouraged to be independent.
As a child, he studied in Baghdad and later trained as a tailor, generating enough business to start a business in Fallujah. His fame spread all the way to the capital, his wife said: “In the Saddam era ministers and government officials would come to the shop and buy suits. They loved his style." Soon people started knocking on the door looking for help.
“Deaf and dumb people came from all over the region, they wanted my husband and me to help them. We started in a very informal way but then more and more people came," she said. In 2007, the couple set up the Anwar Al Fallujah society to provide classes in literacy, cooking, computing, carpentry and sewing to children and adults. “In a way we changed people’s perception about being deaf and dumb," Ms Abdulhamid said.
But the couple was forced to abandon the charity when ISIL captured Fallujah in January 2014. The family fled hours before the militants hoisted their flag in the city. Ms Abdulhamid has tried to open a new centre in Erbil – a magnate for nearly 300,000 people seeking refuge from war in neighbouring Syria and insecurity in other parts of Iraq.
But her attempts to get funding from the local authorities or the United Nations have so far proved futile. Still, she argues it is worth investing in people with disabilities. Most of them would like to help their families, but being stigmatised makes them feel useless, Ms Abdulhamid said. “This is why our job is so important, we give them a purpose. We train them to do a job, we try to empower them."
by Benedetta Argentieri